DON’T Do This To Your Spouse! (Therapy/Coaching Edition)

Not quite an emergency video… but almost! In back-to-back coaching sessions, things went south. The couples ended up worse than when we started.

And BOTH couples violated my #1 rule for working with me… one by accident and the other on purpose(!). Had I not been clear enough? Nope. I was pretty clear.

The person scheduling had simply not heeded my warning. And it played out just the way I knew it would when the rule is broken.

How did I know? I saw it time and again when I was a therapist… until I made my rule.

Now, I only see it when they break my rule. But when it happens… whew… what a mess to clean up (and sometimes, it can’t be cleaned!).

Take a look at the video and see if YOU are at risk of doing this!

(Then, don’t.)

And if you need help, visit me at

Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
Head Coach, The Husband Bootcamp
How to Be An Awesome Husband
The Field Guide to Marriage