Dear Devoted Husband,
First of all, good for you for being here!
Do you feel like you keep failing as a husband?
Do you know your spouse wants more?
Do you not know what to do to be a better spouse?
If you said yes to any of these then this message is just for you.
You can be an Awesome Husband… with a direct path and a clear objective.
And you need to realize, there is a cost to not dealing with this…
Most men make promises to change, but don’t know how or what to do so they try to help more around the house, try to avoid those arguments, and be who they think their spouse wants them to be]. but for most people, none of that works.
And what happens if you just do nothing? If you just keep doing what you’ve been doing?
If a path isn’t getting you there, going further or faster on the same path won’t help. over time, your relationship will continue to disintegrate into conflict, disconnection, and unhappiness.
Now, how can you become an Awesome Husband?
I’ve got an answer that works, but first here’s a quick story…
“Tom” was pretty sure he was failing. he just didn’t know why. His wife made it clear that he needed to “shape up or ship out.” She had had enough. No more empty promises to change. No more sudden interest in doing housework, watching the kids, or showing interest… only to either start complaining about it or just fail to follow through.
To be honest, it wasn’t about the division of labor that spiraled into the repeated conflicts. Tom’s wife simply said, “you don’t have a clue what it means to be a husband, much less a good one!”
In my office, Tom shared that he never had a good model for being a husband. His dad worked all the time, and was pretty grumpy when he was at home. Other friends seemed to work hard to see just how little they could do, and still get away with it.
One day, Tom admitted that before he got married, he was scared. Not that he was marrying the wrong person — he loved (and loves) his wife. No, the fear was about failing as a husband. He didn’t want to do that! But here he was, hearing yet again from his wife, that he was failing as a husband.
Tom asked, “Can you help me out? can you tell me the secret to being a better husband?”
“Tom,” I said, “I think we can aim a little higher. How about if I tell you how to be an Awesome Husband?”
That seemed to get his attention.
To be fair, I am not a perfect husband. nobody is. But i do work hard to learn from my mistakes, to get better every day, and to hit the right targets.
That really is the key here. The right targets.
Most men want to be great husbands… even awesome ones! But they don’t really know what that would mean. So, they start trying things. They are hoping to hit the right thing. But if you don’t know what the target is, just randomly shooting isn’t likely to get you there. And if you do accidentally hit something that matters, you may not know it. Instead, you just keep on flailing, looking for the answer.
And all the while, you are losing ground. your marriage continues to edge (or slide) downward. Your spouse grows more resentful and frustrated.
Those are the ones that break my heart. If a man doesn’t care anymore, and just gives up, there isn’t much i can do… because they aren’t going to do anything. That’s sad, for sure.
But when someone wants to do better, to be better, but keeps on failing — mainly for lack of understanding — that one is tough to watch.
Which led me to create this little ebook on how to be an Awesome Husband.
It is the same approach I have used with many clients over the years, letting them finally escape the frustration and heartbreak of wanting to do better, taking action that didn’t matter, and feeling the relationship slip away.
Let’s do it differently here. Let’s get your marriage turned around. Let me show you the right targets, the right approach. let me help you make a difference, as a husband, that will make a difference in your marriage.
“How to Be An Awesome Husband”
l’m glad to inform you that my marriage has come completely back from the dead, I was served with divorce papers on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, and yesterday afternoon my lovely wife of 17 years vacated the entire divorce proceedings. I have much more work to do with my marriage but thank you again.” – Daryl”
Looking back to when I was “cutting and pasting” advise from a variety of sources (counsellors, pastors, friends etc) I can see that much of what they were saying was consistent with your advice but it just wasn’t structured or organized. That lack of a clear and concise plan made it challenging to stay on task and focus in an orderly fashion on the things I need to do every day to build healthy habits and restore our marriage. While there is still a lot of work to be done to save my marriage I believe that this is a powerful resource in doing so. Thank you and keep up the good work.” — Donald
I purchased your books and read all of it when she told me about the affair in April 2019. I did everything you said to do in your book and it worked. We still have a lot of work to do but we are back to “us”. I know I can trust her and she is now willing to do what ever it takes to fix things. We are happier now than we have ever been. We have been married for 20 years and we have a connection now that we never had before.” – Jeremy
Awesome Change Mini-Course
Every man must face them. But most men don’t know they are coming. These four moments are pivotal. But they don’t need to trip you up! Knowing they are coming is a great start. What you really need, though, is some preparation for responding. How will you face those moments? I tell you about the four moments that every man must face, and walk you through how to respond to each one.
Are you thriving? Most people aren’t, but don’t know how to get there. But if you aren’t thriving, it is much harder to have a thriving relationship. So, we need to help you shift, using my Thrive System. There are two major components to the System. One helps you build your Thrive Plan. The other helps you implement it as a daily habit. I’ll provide both to you, along with training, so you can implement the Thrive System into your daily life, quickly and easily.
You have a choice to make: do what you’ve been doing (or worse, do nothing at all). You know where that will lead. Is that really where you want to go? Take a new action, and get a new result. Finally, be the husband you want to be, know you can be, and are ready to be.
Which do you really want for yourself? Here’s what to do now…
When you get the the Awesome Husband ebook today, you’ll get the key to…
It all comes as part of this short, direct, ebook plus the bonuses.
✅ The Awesome Husband eBook (Value $47)
✅ Awesome Change Mini-Course (Value $97)
✅ 4 Moments Every Man Must Face eBook (Value $47)
✅ The Thrive System (Value $197)
And you are 100% safe to try this out. That’s all I’m suggesting. Just try it for 30 days to see if it works for you. If it does, you’ll be delighted – and I think that’s exactly what’s about to happen. If for some reason you’re not delighted with the man you are becoming, that Awesome Husband, then just let me know – and you get all your money back.
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