I have some friends who have been in different bootcamps this past year. Most are fitness-oriented… getting back into shape, improving your running, improving your tennis, things like that. Bootcamps are great ways to get up-to-speed as quickly as possible, so you perform better.
In the military, people go through bootcamp to get ready to be a soldier. It is intense and challenging, but designed to get someone ready to face a challenge elsewhere.
Is it time for a bootcamp? How about a Husband Bootcamp? Bootcamps are a great way to get up-to-speed for what comes next.
Which is why I created The Husband Bootcamp.
I remember sitting in my office with a couple trying to get back on-track. They were stumbling and struggling. Then, she turned toward him and said, “You are a good man. But you are a bad husband.” It was like a hammer at hit him in the face. He was embarrassed and upset. At first, he was angry. But then, he caught himself, turned to me, and said, “I am doing the best I can… and I am failing. What can I do?”
That started an impromptu bootcamp. We called it the Husband Bootcamp. Along with a few others, this was transformational for their marriage.
Recently, I decided it was time to bring that to a bigger audience. We have been working hard to put the finishing touches on things. But in the meantime, I wanted to give you a little insight on what it is about, who can benefit, and how to jump in (or gift it to your spouse).
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THE HUSBAND BOOTCAMP IS OPEN
From: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
Author, “The Husband Bootcamp”
Dear devoted husband,
If your marriage is suffering from a lack of intimacy, increased fighting, and you’re worried about the possibility that your wife will walk out resulting in expensive attorneys sucking the life out of you and your finances, and you know that you need change before it’s too late, then this letter may be the only thing standing between you and a messy, expensive divorce.
There is a way you can restore your marriage, win back your wife’s heart, and get back to the loving, harmonious relationship with the connection and affection that you had when you first tied the knot.
But, you need to realize that there is a cost to not dealing with this right away…
If You Don’t Do Something About It, It Just Gets Worse
Most men, when facing relational disintegration and an unhappy spouses typically tend to ignore the signs, hoping the issues will work themselves out… promising to change over and over, making small progresses, then regressing to the same behavior. …make small steps forward, only to fall back… none of this works.
And what happens if you just do nothing? If you just keep doing what you’ve been doing? You keep getting less intimacy, less connection, less peace… until one day she’s had enough and you’re frantically looking to hire an attorney.
How I Discovered The Secrets
Of A Healthy Marriage
I’ve got an answer that works.
Here’s the story:
After 3 decades of working with couples, I had heard it before. But this time, it seemed to be in every session.
First, John. He looked like he had taken a gut-punch when he heard his wife. “You aren’t a bad man,” she told him, “But you aren’t a good husband.” John and Sue were sitting on my couch, trying to unwind the hurt and pain. As much as he wanted to be in a good marriage, John just couldn’t make the changes Sue was hoping for.
Then came Paul. He was talking to me on a phone call. “Why can’t I just get it together,” he asked? His marriage was not where he wanted it to be, with lots of pain from past struggles. Then Paul suddenly shifted to a whisper, “I have no idea what I am doing here. My father was never around, and when he was, they were fighting. How am I supposed to know how to be a husband?”
Then, when I met with Alex, he told me that every day, he was terrified. Was he going to make another mistake? Was he going to have a “PO’d wife,” as he called it? Would he feel like a failure again? The result: he was scared to do anything… which ironically led to a pissed off spouse.
I’ve heard those same things over and over:
How about you? Are you the husband you want to be? That your spouse wants you to be?
This is an interesting moment in history, and many men really haven’t had a chance to even witness what it means to be a good husband. It’s kind of a function of history.
With nearly 50% of marriages ending in divorce, around half of men grew up in broken homes. They didn’t see good examples of spousal interaction. And many in intact families had fathers who were often absent, with work or other interests. Spousal interactions were sparse. And many of the truly significant interactions were not in the open. You couldn’t even see the good stuff happening!
As one man told me, “The discussions I did hear were loud and angry. I never knew how they talked when they weren’t angry. I guess it was the volume problem. The good talks were too quiet to hear. The bad talks were too loud to miss.”
But what if being a good husband is really about learning some skills? In other words, what if you could learn to be a good husband? Even if you never had a good model. Even if you don’t know how right now?
Guess what? That is exactly the case. Being a good husband amounts to:
You have to understand what it means to be a good husband and have a great marriage. You need to have the skills of a great husband. And then, you just have to act on the knowledge and skills.
You just need the knowledge and skills, then take action. 1, 2, 3. The steps to being not just a good, but a great, husband!
What would that mean for you?
What would it mean to have:
Let me tell you what I did with John, Paul, and Alex.
I made them an offer. “Give me a month, and I will give you the tools, knowledge, and skills you need for a lifetime of being a great husband… of helping create a great marriage!”
On the spot, out of desperation to make a difference in their lives, I created a Husband Bootcamp.
A fitness bootcamp is designed to give you a running start on fitness. Get in shape, then stay in shape. That’s what bootcamps do. They get you started on a path to be better. To be in better shape with a fitness bootcamp.
The Husband Bootcamp is about being a better spouse and having a better marriage!
John, Paul, and Alex were interested. They DID want to be a better husband. All three were tired of feeling incompetent and incapable in their marriage. But what would it take for them to get there? What would the bootcamp look like? What would they have to do?
Before I tell you what I wanted from them, let me tell you about me.
When I was a kid, I had the good fortune of watching my parents work together as spouses to have a happy and satisfying marriage. Sure, they might disagree at times, but they worked it out. And both were very happy with their relationship (and still are, after nearly 60 years).
It wasn’t like that, though, for most of my cousins. I watched their families fall apart… and I watched the fallout of those broken homes. I still don’t have any relationship with some of my cousins, as they had to choose sides. I saw the pain and destruction of hurtful marriage, up close and personal.
In college, I knew I wanted to be a counselor, so I took sociology and psychology courses. One of my professors introduced me to the central idea of family therapy: families are a web of connection and relating… and problems happen when there is dysfunction in the relating.
So, during grad school (now over 30 years ago), I focused especially on learning how to help marriages and families. I learned the latest techniques in helping marriages, in addressing family dysfunction.
But to be honest, I was underwhelmed with what I say in the therapy offices. Couples weren’t getting better. Families weren’t getting better.
What was wrong?
Was it me? Was I a bad therapist?
Or was it the approach?
Turns out, there are some pretty major issues with marital therapy. For example, research shows that about 50% of couples who go to therapy still end up divorced. That is pretty much the same statistic for the general population. In fact, only about 15% of couples reported any improvement!
Was I at a dead-end for helping hurting marriages?
I didn’t think so. So, I put on my researcher’s hat and started hunting for better answers and more helpful approaches. That led to my Save The Marriage approach. Suddenly, marriages were improving. Couples were happier and more contented. Love was coming back to troubled marriages.
That was over 2 decades ago. Since, I have continued to refine my approach, working with thousands of couples from around the world. I’ve written a number of books (7, so far) about how to thrive in life and in your marriage. I host 2 podcasts on those same topics. And I personally coach a small number of select couples and individuals each year.
Oh, and I have been happily married to the same person since 1988. We’ve weathered some tough days together. We’ve raised 2 children (both now adults). And we still are connected, loving, and looking forward to growing old together.
It Worked For These People And
It Will Work For You Too
“Radically different…I finally have hope..
My marriage has been in trouble for years. I’ve read other books. . . your ideas are radically different from the others. I’ve never read anything like it. Now, things are improving. I finally have hope!” – Brad R.
Here Is Just Some Of What We Cover In The 30-Day Husband Book Camp…
And That’s Only What We’ll Cover In The First Few Days, There’s More…
It all comes as part of the The Husband Bootcamp.
And you are 100% safe to try this out.
That’s all I’m suggesting. Just try the training for 14 days to see if it works for you.
If it does, you’ll be delighted – and I think that’s exactly what’s about to happen. If for some reason you’re not delighted with the new loving marriage, full of warmth and connection, then just let me know – and you get all your money back.
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It’s Decision Time
You have a choice to make: Do what you’ve been doing (or worse, do nothing at all). You know where that will lead. Stuck. Frustrated. Disconnected. Failing.
Is that really where you want to go?
There is another option: Take a new action, and get a new result.
Get back to the love, connection, and peace you both want. Restore your marriage and regain your confidence. Discover the hidden power of your marriage.
Here’s what to do now… fill in the form below and join The Husband Bootcamp right now!
I look forward to seeing you inside!
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P.P.S. — Let’s be blunt: If you pass on this offer, will you have the marriage that you desire? Probably not!
You’ll still wish and want it, but you’ll continue going round and round the proverbial hamster wheel.
Act now! Buy now! Your satisfaction is guaranteed.