You made a pledge to be married, through thick and thin,
and you love your spouse.
Don’t you don’t always know what to do… how to be married.
You might not even be sure what marriage is really about.
What you need is a
Field Guide to Marriage.
Something that “pulls back the curtains” and reveals the secrets
to a successful, warm, loving marriage.

How to Get Rid of Disconnection, Pain, and Confusion in Your Marriage

 If you suffer from a disconnected marriage… if your spouse is frustrated and angry over the state of your relationship… if you know your marriage is in trouble, but you have no idea what to do about it… then this message is just for you. Here’s why… 


And you need to realize, there is a cost to not dealing with this…

If You Ignore It, It Just Gets Worse

What most people do when facing fractured or failing marriage is promise to
make changes (without knowing what changes to make), go to therapy (even
if therapy only brings up more pain and no resolution),
and complicate the
situation (with unproven tips and hacks they find on the internet). But for
most people, none of that works.

  • The distance only grows
  • The frustration takes over more and more of your
  • The fights keep ending with no solution but even more hurt.

And what happens if you just do nothing? If you just keep doing what you’ve been
doing? Your marriage will continue to struggle. Your spouse will continue to
question why you should even be married. And then, your marriage will
collapse into divorce or disconnection.

How I Have Helped Thousands of Men Understand Their Spouse and Heal Their Marriages

I’ve got an answer that works. Here’s the story: Here’s a little secret: I am actually a “recovering” marriage therapist.

I went to school for a LONG time (2 Masters and a Ph.D.) to be a marriage therapist. But I was a bit… ummm…surprised… that marriage therapy was proving so unhelpful for my clients. Until I did a little research (well, actually, A LOT!), and pulled back the curtains. Marriage therapy IS ineffective (for the most part — there are some gifted therapists, and it does help sometimes). 50% of people going to therapy still divorce. And only 10 to 15% report any help.

But I was equally convinced that many hurting marriages COULD be helped. And NEEDED that help! So I decided to start experimenting and studying. I wanted to find out what helps. And I did just that. I created an approach that WAS helpful and effective for even the most troubled marriages.

Along the way, though, I also discovered that there as a root issue that made most marriages start out on a limp… already headed for trouble. 

Here is what I found:


They don’t understand what marriage really is about (even if they think they do), and IF they discover it at all, on their own, their relationship is often damaged.

And for men, the rate of confusion is even higher. MOST men told me they didn’t “get” what marriage was about, what their spouse needed, and why it was so hard to make it work. They felt lost.

So, I took to explaining what marriage REALLY is about. And guess what? MANY times, knowing this was enough to turn things around! The endless cycle of struggles and conflict ended. The countless moments of a frustrated spouse suddenly evaporated. Many marriages transformed JUST BECAUSE the true nature of marriage was understood.

Nobody wants to have a bad marriage. But many don’t know how to avoid it. UNTIL they understand the truth about marriage.

So, I decided to create a very simple, very direct, audio course to help people quickly understand what marriage is about. And more importantly, what to do and where to focus, in order to turn things around.

Since you are “in the wild,” trying to figure this out, you need a Field Guide to Marriage. And here it is!

It Worked For These People, And It Will Work For You

Finally, It’s Your Turn!

When you get the FIELD GUIDE TO MARRIAGE today, you’ll get the key to…

Unlocking conflicts and finding peace.

Understanding your spouse and loving your spouse.

Discovering lasting warmth and connection.

It all comes as part of an 8-part audio series.
And you are 100% safe to try this out. That’s all I’m suggesting. Just try it for 30 days to see if it works for you. If it does, you’ll be delighted – and I think that’s exactly what’s about to happen. If for some reason you’re not delighted with the love, connection ,and warmth you discover, then just let me know – and you get all your money back.

It’s Decision Time

You have a choice to make: Do what you’ve been doing (or worse, do nothing at all). You know where that will lead. Is that really where you want to go? 

Take a new action, and get a new result. 

Finally get the love you BOTH want.

Which do you really want for yourself ? Here’s what to do now…